The upper hand is better than the lower hand (i.e. he who gives in charity is better than him who takes it). One should start giving first to his dependents. And the best object of charity is that, which is given by a wealthy person (from the money which is left after his expenses). And whoever abstains from asking others for some financial help, Allah will give him and save him from asking others, Allah will make him self-sufficient. – (Bukhari)

Abu Huraira related that the Prophet said: He who makes a habit of asking from others reaches out for a brand of Fire, so let him refrain or continue, as he desires. – (Muslim)

Also, there is a point of correction on your second to the last statement pointing that we are in poor country, we are not we just dont know how to manage the resource of this our great country, assume to share the money of Nigeria to every citizen anyone in this country can sustain a very good life style.

“Allah ya Taimakemu, amma akwai matsala, just try your best, gobarar kusa kowa yayi mai fitar da shi.” that we are NIGERIA,NIGERIA,NIGERIA